David Robert Octon died on 21 February 2026 aged 88.  He lived a life defined by service, quiet determination, and devotion to family. 

Born in Brighton on 26 February 1937, David was the son of Aldred and Aida Octon. From an early age he showed the independence and discipline that would shape his later life. As an active Boy Scout he developed a lifelong love of the outdoors, particularly fishing and camping, pursuits that remained close to his heart throughout his life. In his youth he also played rugby for Eastleigh 1st XV, carrying with him a strong sense of teamwork, commitment, and resilience. 

After leaving school, David undertook National Service with the Royal Air Force, initially stationed at RAF Calshot, where he worked on the famous flying boats. He later received a commission in the RAF and trained as a pilot. When this path did not ultimately succeed, he adapted with characteristic resolve, retraining as a Navigator. During the Cold War he flew in high‑level interceptor aircraft, including the Phantom, Javelin, and Lightning, specialising in escape and evasion techniques within his squadron—an area demanding exceptional calm, judgement, and skill. 

David served with both 46 Squadron and 64 Squadron, and between 1963 and 1967 was stationed in Singapore at RAF Tengah. In September 1959 he married Audrey Bates, the youngest daughter of Fred Bates, Mayor of Luton, with whom he shared a devoted marriage. Their two sons were born in different chapters of their lives: Timothy in Singapore in 1964, and Christopher in Ipswich in 1967. 

On returning to the United Kingdom, David continued to serve with the RAF while living in Ipswich. After leaving the service, he embarked on a new professional chapter, studying at the College of Estate Management based at Reading University. The family later moved from Reading to Harthill House in Redlynch, Wiltshire, and David established himself as a commercial estate agent. 

While based in Southampton during his estate agency career, David fully embraced his love of sailing. He was a long‑standing member of the Royal Southampton Yacht Club, where he was eventually elected a Guardian — a role reflecting the respect in which he was held. He took great pleasure in cruising his Starlight 39 yacht, APOS, particularly along the French coast. 

Professionally, David began his civilian career with Fox & Sons in Southampton before moving to Humbert Flint Rawlence and Squarey, later known as Humberts. During his time at Humberts he became a Fellow of the Royal Institution of Chartered Surveyors (FRICS) and an equity partner, reflecting his expertise, standing, and contribution to the firm. 

In later years, David and Audrey also enjoyed owning a house in the Lot valley in France, where David became an active and well‑liked member of the thriving expatriate community. 

David will be remembered as a man of quiet strength, adaptability, and deep commitment to his family. He is survived by his wife Audrey; his sons Timothy and Christopher; his grandchildren Tobias, Emily, and Stephanie; and his great‑granddaughter Evelyn, all of whom will cherish his memory.